I drive the car- and I only drive the car.
I have never had to wash it, service it or pump the petrol. Sometimes, I do not
even need to drive as I will be chauffeured to my destination. I get updated
with the latest news because every morning there is a fresh copy of newspaper in my study room. I almost never need to buy them. Every morning I am greeted
with hot and hearty breakfast and never went to work hungry before. No, I am
neither a superstar nor am I a rich kid. I dare not think that I am worthy of
any of those treatments. But, to my father, I am his princess.
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I am my father's princess |
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Buddies with Papa |
I am sure we are all familiar with the
hotline emergency numbers that we star-marked in our phones. Papa’s phone
number represents all those numbers. When I got my first vehicle (a pink
bicycle) my father was my first instructor. He is my first mechanic when he
took out the training wheels and fixed the loose chains. When I turned teen, I
would keep papa busy by calling him when my car battery died, my car tire
punctured and when I reversed the car into a drain (yes, did I tell you I was
and still am a great driver?) Papa never left me alone on all those occasions.
He was at beck and call and appeared right by my side. Not to mention, he bore
all the expenses of my blunders. It was quite a bargain to be able to get the
car fixed at a cost of absorbing some nagging. Until now, papa is still my
automotive advisor.
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Papa always making sure I drive with the tank full |
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Papa's gesture of love: Fresh newspaper every morning |
Papa has always been a DIY man. The house
becomes an installation of his creativity. I noticed that we rarely have
handyman visits because everything has been taken care of by papa. He is either
painting or constructing the store room or nailing art on the wall. This will
definitely up the standard for his sons-in-law. The 9-month-pregnant belly will
not stop him from tessellating the bedroom floor, building the storage room or
fixing the filter. Being the only man in the family, any purchase from the
hardware shop is surely papa’s. He has all the know-hows to solve my mechanical
woes. Now that he is older, it is heart wrenching to see him still championing
the role of the protector to mend the house with sores and aches. I try my best
to help but there is so much a girl can do. It’s a shame calling myself an
engineer. Papa’s hammering and sawing is still the neatest!
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Go Pa go! |
Papa has a big “Mahathir” nose- a trait
that I have inherited from him. I wonder if he uses his nose to smell his
knowledge as he knows a lot. He is the only one whom can mentor me about news
and general knowledge. From the electricity watts to what is going on in United
States, papa knows. When national politics becomes too complicated for me to
follow, papa patiently narrates the whole turmoil so that I do not lose out
when having conversations with others. Papa, who else will so selflessly impart
knowledge to me when you are no longer around?
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Now you know where I got my big nose from |
Papa, although occasionally steaming with
sternness, has his adorable side. He attracts babes like a magnet- children
that is. No baby can resist his 9-month-pregnant belly that cushions their
diapered bum. If all of us were to open our hands to a baby, the baby will,
hands (and knees) down, crawl to papa. Papa is fantastic with kids and his
kindness towards them has been experienced first-handedly by yours truly.
Happiness is all he wants to give his children. I remember that he was given an
assignment in Melacca. Knowing that that his kids love jumping on hotel beds,
he troubled himself with a 2-hour drive back home to pick us up after work to
share his privileges. Not being very well-to-do at times, papa still manages to
provide my sister and I adequately. He saved to buy me my first laptop when I
was 18 years old so that I could complete my assignments. He never let us feel
any lesser.
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Papa's chemistry with kids is unexplainable |
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Papa holds my hands till now and never got tired of it |
Papa commands through his righteousness. He
may be strict but nothing can rival his sincere intention for us. To me, he is the epitome of forgiveness. His daughters could make him hit the roof but still will not hold any grudges on us. He is the
only one that makes sure that I have transport everywhere. He does not mind
sacrificing his well-deserved nap just to make sure I have a car ride home
instead of the bus ride. He makes sure that I remember handphone and money. He will wait at the door till I am back home. He calls
to make sure I have an umbrella with me when it is raining. He will deliver the
documents that I have so mindlessly forgotten even though it means he has to
rush from KL to Terengganu. He is always there for me.
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Papa drove me to work battling the 2-hour jam everyday, to and fro, when I fractured my foot |
Papa, thank you will never do justice to what you have done for us. To my curry-loving hero, you are always
my first love and irreplaceable in my heart. Papa. Happy Father's Day and I love you!
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Bali with Pa |
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Yumcha |
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